Some look for friends only when they need something from them....
Some look for friends only when these friends need something from them...
Are these considered healthy friendship? Can these be considered as friendship at all? Maybe it can.. but shouldnt friends go through thick and thin together. Good and bad. Not just one?
I went to sleep thinking last night....
"Why do people have to look for each other only when there is a need to?"
Wouldn't it be nice if friends drop an email, an sms or a call just to ask "Wats up?", "How have you been?" or "Hows life?". Busy? Well, perhaps. But i although there is still so much idealism and hope in me, we should just take things as it is sometimes, as some things just cannot be forced upon. And this is one of them. Because Hope, i recently realised, has two edges.
i digress.
Unfortunately, friendship is something you can work hard and obtain. Like all relationships, friendship is something that has to be mutual. If respect come from only one without the other... the only place this relationship exist, is in the mind of the dreamer.
They say good friends are rare, i agree.
2 comments:
I disagree.
I think it should be: Good friendships are rare.
Perhaps you are right.
Just like in relationships, no one is at fault. Maybe its just not meant to be.
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